Sunday, April 26, 2009

Im stuck between a rock and a hard place, can anyone give me advice?

My grandfather has recently been diagnosed with prostate cancer, and is being treated with chemo, but the doctor says that it has already spread too far, and he could pass away in 2 weeks, or two years.. but no more than two years





im very upset because i love him very much, and we wont even be able to see me graduate school... also a bestfriend screwed me over, i feel that i am losing feelings for my boyfriend, and my parents are taking their grief out on me....





it seems like there is no where to turn, i just dont know what to do anymore.... any advice?





also, music helps me get through .. are there any songs that could relate?

Im stuck between a rock and a hard place, can anyone give me advice?
It is a hard place to be in but do the best you can when you visist and visit often.....everyone is upset right now so try as much as you can to understand this...if you need to talk to someone like your friend or family that may help you get threw some of this you will always be sad by your lost but know he won't be in any pain which he is I'm sure so take care
Reply:At my current age, I need to prepare myself for my older generation's passing away. One of my uncle's passed away last month.





The best thing you can do is make a point to give him the best of you for the remaining time. He will enjoy that more than anything.
Reply:It's difficult to watch someone you love slowly die. I'm sure your parents are upset about it too.





You are going through some changes during this process. Is your boyfriend supportive of your feelings? If not, maybe he has never been through anything like this and doesn't know how to comfort you. Many people are afraid to be around death issues.





See a school counselor to work through this. Sorry I don't know any songs for you, but she might.


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